{"id":9800,"date":"2021-11-06T00:13:12","date_gmt":"2021-11-05T23:13:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/?p=9800"},"modified":"2025-08-05T09:17:02","modified_gmt":"2025-08-05T07:17:02","slug":"relationship-needs-in-conversation-with-christine-behrens-inkovema-podcast-61","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/blog\/relationship-needs-in-conversation-with-christine-behrens-inkovema-podcast-61\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship needs. In conversation with Christine Behrens (INKOVEMA podcast #61)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container gradient-container-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1144px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-four\"><h4 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:16;--minFontSize:16;line-height:1.5;\"><h4>INKOVEMA Podcast &#8222;Well through time&#8220;<\/h4><\/h4><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-2 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:34;line-height:1.4;\"><h1>#61 &#8211; Relationship needs<\/h1><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-3 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-three\"><h3 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:20;line-height:1.5;\"><h2>A transactional analysis concept for understanding relationship dynamics. In conversation with Christine Behrens<\/h2><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Well through time. The podcast about mediation, conflict coaching and organisational consulting.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#ffffff;border-color:#ffffff;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><script class=\"podigee-podcast-player\" src=\"https:\/\/player.podigee-cdn.net\/podcast-player\/javascripts\/podigee-podcast-player.js\" data-configuration=\"https:\/\/inkovema.podigee.io\/61-61-beziehungsbedurfnisse-im-gesprach-mit-christine-behrens\/embed?context=external\"><\/script><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#ffffff;border-color:#ffffff;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p><strong>Christine Behrens, <\/strong>qualified theologian, teaching transactional analyst and currently Chair of the Board of the German Society for Transactional Analysis (DGTA).<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#ffffff;border-color:#ffffff;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><h2>Contents:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The concept of relational needs, developed by Richard Erskine and Rebecca Trautman, builds on E. Berne's concept of basic needs. It further formulates Berne's concept of hunger and emphasises the interpersonal relationship as the starting and end point of (inter)human needs.<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>The eight relationship needs<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol class=\"ol1\">\n<li class=\"li3\">Security (Security)<\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\">Feeling valued, affirmed and important (valuing)<\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\">Being protected and accepted, acceptance<\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\">Confirmation of personal experiences (Mutuality)<\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\">Self-definition, confirmation of uniqueness (self-definition)<\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\">Self-efficacy, having an impact on others (making an impact)<\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\">Others may also show initiative (Others take the Initiative)<\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\">Express love (To Express Love)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Literature:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Erskine, R.:<\/strong>\u00a0Relationship needs, in: ZTA 2008, 287-297.<\/li>\n<li><strong>K\u00fcster, Chr:<\/strong> Tracking down relational needs, in: Weigel, Handbuch der TA in der Mediation, 2014.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Seidenfus, Chr.:<\/strong>\u00a0The eight relationship needs according to R. Erskine in a professional context. A workshop report, ZTA 3\/2020, 230-238.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Left:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.c-behrens.de\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Website Christine Behrens<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":9802,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[736,314,42,31],"tags":[737,420,739,14,740,22,738,741],"class_list":["post-9800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-beziehungsbeduernisse","category-inkovema-podcast","category-podcast","category-transaktionsanalyse","tag-beziehungsdynamik","tag-feedback","tag-liebe","tag-mediation","tag-sicherheit","tag-transaktionsanalyse","tag-wertschaetzung","tag-zuneigung"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9800","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9800"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9800\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9802"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}