{"id":4712,"date":"2017-10-30T12:54:55","date_gmt":"2017-10-30T11:54:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/?p=4712"},"modified":"2020-02-14T13:13:16","modified_gmt":"2020-02-14T12:13:16","slug":"newsletter-inkovema-18-gaslighting-and-metoo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/blog\/newsletter-inkovema-18-gaslighting-and-metoo\/","title":{"rendered":"Newsletter-INKOVEMA #18: Gaslighting and #MeToo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 gradient-container-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 gradient-container-2 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-3 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-alignleft\"><a class=\"fusion-button button-flat fusion-button-default-size button-default fusion-button-default button-1 fusion-button-default-span fusion-button-default-type\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/newsletter-archive\/\"><span class=\"fusion-button-text awb-button__text awb-button__text--default\">View all newsletters<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-3 gradient-container-3 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-4 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:34;line-height:1.4;\"><h1>INKOVEMA Newsletter<\/h1>\n<h1>Mediation and conflict management<\/h1>\n<h1># 18<\/h1><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-2 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:34;line-height:1.4;\"><h2><strong>Key topics: <\/strong><\/h2>\n<h3><strong>&#8211; Gaslighting<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong>&#8211; #MeToo<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2><\/h2><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><h3>Gaslighting<\/h3>\n<p>The phenomenon is gradually crossing the media perception threshold in the world of work. The manipulative relationship process was previously known primarily in private relationships, but is increasingly being recognised in working relationships too. This is a <strong>Process of power formation and stabilisation within social relationships in which perception and memory are manipulated<\/strong>. Anyone thinking of Ingrid Bergmann and lots of fog is not wrong at all.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.welt.de\/wissenschaft\/article161777142\/Wie-bewusste-Manipulation-der-Realitaet-Menschen-krank-macht.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Introductory article on gaslighting<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/arbeits-abc.de\/gaslighting\/#a2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">All about gaslighting in the world of work<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/conquering-corporate-america\/gaslighting-for-beginners-4da0eddcf135\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Gaslighting in the world of work<\/a> (humorous, English)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep fusion-clearfix\" style=\"float:left;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;background-color:rgba(255,255,255,0);font-size:16px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px\"><i class=\"fa-th-list fas\" style=\"font-size: inherit;color:#e2e2e2;\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-video fusion-youtube fusion-aligncenter\" style=\"--awb-max-width:600px;--awb-max-height:360px;--awb-width:100%;\"><div class=\"video-shortcode\"><div class=\"fluid-width-video-wrapper\" style=\"padding-top:60%;\" ><iframe title=\"YouTube video player 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/fFfBB4WCFJY?wmode=transparent&autoplay=0&oida=1\" width=\"600\" height=\"360\" allowfullscreen allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture;\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p>Charles Boyer gaslighted Ingrid Bergman &#8211; always captivating.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep fusion-clearfix\" style=\"float:left;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;background-color:rgba(255,255,255,0);font-size:16px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px\"><i class=\"fa-th-list fas\" style=\"font-size: inherit;color:#e2e2e2;\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><h3>MeToo<\/h3>\n<p>This is the name of the <strong>Current debate on sexism and discrimination<\/strong>. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zeit.de\/gesellschaft\/2017-10\/metoo-sexismus-opfer-soziale-medien-hysterie\/komplettansicht\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Thomas Fischer<\/a><\/strong>Germany's most prolific criminal judge has commented on this in the ZEIT online &#8211; and once again ensured that the comment columns are at least as worth reading as the text itself. Take your time!<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>In the <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.deutschlandfunk.de\/sexismusdebatte-metoo-aufruhr-deckt-sich-nicht-mit.694.de.html?dram:article_id=399335\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Deutschlandfunk Matthias Enderle was interviewed<\/a><\/strong>Chairman of the men's rights organisation MANNdat.<\/li>\n<li>To the<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zeit.de\/arbeit\/2017-09\/sexismus-arbeitsplatz-sprueche-frauen\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Sexism in the German workplace, told by those affected<\/a><\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li>Also <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zeit.de\/arbeit\/2017-10\/sexuelle-belaestigung-mann-arbeit\/komplettansicht\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Men experience sexual violence and discrimination in the workplace<\/a>,<\/strong> an underexposed topic that is being addressed in the course of sensitisation.<\/li>\n<li>To the<a href=\"http:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/feuilleton\/debatten\/harvey-weinstein-und-metoo-15251135.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> <strong>Occasion and extent of the debate<\/strong><\/a><strong>,<\/strong> which has its origins in Hollywood, this article in the FAZ is worth reading.<\/li>\n<li>One of the starting points in Hollywood were the <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sueddeutsche.de\/panorama\/vorwuerfe-sexueller-belaestigung-angelina-jolie-und-gwyneth-paltrow-erheben-vorwuerfe-gegen-weinstein-1.3703645\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Statements from Angelina Jolie and Gwyneth Paltrow<\/a>.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Meanwhile, in Germany, the <strong>Independent Commission for the Investigation of Child Sexual Abuse in the GDR<\/strong> their work. On the one hand, there is a\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.aufarbeitungskommission.de\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">informative website of the Commission<\/a><\/strong>; and Die Zeit devotes a detailed article to the topic. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zeit.de\/gesellschaft\/zeitgeschehen\/2017-10\/ddr-sexueller-missbrauch-aufarbeitung\/komplettansicht\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Reportage<\/a><\/strong>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Good news: Decrease in violence<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: lato, helvetica neue, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">News is a source of information and a busy industry. Above all, bad news is economically successful news.  This is why our perception often takes a different path than the historical truth due to these one-sided emotional and mental impressions. It should therefore be expressly pointed out here that <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zeit.de\/politik\/ausland\/2017-06\/kolumbien-farc-guerilla-vereinte-nationen-waffen\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">In SUMMER 2017, a civil war in Colombia that had lasted over 50 years came to an end<\/a><span style=\"font-family: lato, helvetica neue, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"> is: The <\/span><strong>FARC in Colombia<\/strong><span style=\"font-family: lato, helvetica neue, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u00a0are &#8211; completely weapon-free after the peace agreement of 22 June 2016 &#8211; in mid-2017, have founded a party and are guaranteed parliamentary involvement in the political organisation of Colombia for the next 10 years. This civil war cost around 220,000 (mostly civilian) lives. Millions of people have fled and been displaced during this time. This hustle and bustle has come to a negotiated end.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Law of mediation &#8211; Lawyer-mediators<\/h3>\n<p>The Higher Regional Court of Stuttgart (OLG Stuttgart judgement of 26 January 2017 - 11 U 4\/16, n.rkr.) has also issued a remarkable decision for mediators. Insofar as lawyer-mediators have assumed the obligation to help develop an amicable solution, suggest ideas, etc., they are to be treated like lawyers in liability matters. This is because they do not merely mediate between the parties to the conflict, but also provide legal assistance and legal advice (over and above legal advice).<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Here <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/lrbw.juris.de\/cgi-bin\/laender_rechtsprechung\/document.py?Gericht=bw&amp;nr=21892\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">the judgement<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Here<strong>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/community.beck.de\/2017\/10\/23\/die-haftung-des-mediators-warnhinweis-zugleich-an-alle-rechtsanwaelte\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">the concrete case development\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Feelings<\/h3>\n<p>Is there a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zeit.de\/zeit-wissen\/2015\/03\/emotion-gedaechtnis-gefuehle-erfahrung\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Memory of feelings<\/strong><\/a>? ZEIT online already asked this question two years ago, but the article is still worth reading and entertaining.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":4713,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[187],"tags":[282,281,216,179],"class_list":["post-4712","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-newsletter-archiv","tag-metoo","tag-gaslighting","tag-gefuehle","tag-gewalt"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4712","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4712"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4712\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4713"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4712"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4712"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4712"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}