{"id":4607,"date":"2018-06-01T14:37:20","date_gmt":"2018-06-01T12:37:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/?p=4607"},"modified":"2020-02-11T12:43:21","modified_gmt":"2020-02-11T11:43:21","slug":"newsletter-inkovema-25-doubt-and-despair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/blog\/newsletter-inkovema-25-doubt-and-despair\/","title":{"rendered":"Newsletter-INKOVEMA #25: Doubt and despair"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 gradient-container-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 gradient-container-2 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-3 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-alignleft\"><a class=\"fusion-button button-flat fusion-button-default-size button-default fusion-button-default button-1 fusion-button-default-span fusion-button-default-type\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/newsletter-archive\/\"><span class=\"fusion-button-text awb-button__text awb-button__text--default\">View all newsletters<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-3 gradient-container-3 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-4 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:34;line-height:1.4;\"><h1>INKOVEMA Newsletter<\/h1>\n<h1>Mediation and conflict management<\/h1>\n<h1># 25<\/h1><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-2 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:34;line-height:1.4;\"><h2><strong>Focus topic: <\/strong><\/h2>\n<h3><strong>&#8211; Doubt and despair<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2><\/h2><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><h3><strong>He who doubts does not wage war.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\">What is the function and effect of doubt in conflicts? In our world, which always and everywhere emphasises its values, it can sometimes be scary.  Because <\/span><strong>not<\/strong><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u00a0<\/span><strong>Hatred and valuelessness<\/strong><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u00a0<\/span><strong>have led to war and destruction<\/strong><span style=\"font-size: large;\">but <\/span><strong>Value lust<\/strong> <strong>and glorification of the system.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Moral and ethical value systems lead to armed brotherhood and armed authorisation. Even if values and morals have always led to wars, war does not have to be imminent in order to be able to deal with the <strong>Progress driver ZWEIFEL<\/strong> to deal with.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Older, but doubting the meaning of life in the office <a href=\"http:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/beruf-chance\/beruf\/sinnsuche-bei-der-arbeit-es-lebe-der-zweifel-im-buero-13605769.html?printPagedArticle=true#pageIndex_0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Plea for action<\/strong>instead of doubts. Undoubtedly worth reading.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.zeit.de\/kultur\/2018-04\/zweifel-frauen-erfolg-fragen-10-nach-8\/komplettansicht\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>And again against the doubts<\/strong>which are sometimes regarded as relationship killers, although Goethe already clearly interpreted doubt as the beginning of a relationship (&#8222;Drum pr\u00fcfe&#8230;&#8220;)<strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.beziehungsweise-magazin.de\/ratgeber\/partnerschaft-beziehung\/im-zweifel-gegen-die-zweifel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li>What has\u00a0<strong>GNTM<\/strong> to do with despair?\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.zeit.de\/2018\/22\/germanys-next-topmodel-finale-favoritin-toni-philosophie\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Doubts serve the\u00a0<strong>Search for truth,\u00a0<\/strong>right?\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.badische-zeitung.de\/kultur-sonstige\/im-zweifel-fuer-den-zweifel--56179592.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a>\u00a0(registration required)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Mediation<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Borders <strong>Mediation to magic<\/strong>? How to become a mediator.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.waz.de\/wirtschaft\/mediatorin-einen-konflikt-zu-loesen-ist-keine-zauberei-id214138095.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>INKOVEMA contribution:<\/strong> Final agreements in mediation and<strong> Limits for mediators<\/strong> through the <strong>Legal Services Act<\/strong>. <a href=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/mediation\/final-agreements-in-mediation-and-limits-for-mediators-the-legal-services-act\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Conflicts<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>With <strong>Software<\/strong> the\u00a0<strong>Conflict management in the company<\/strong>professionalise &#8211; how is that supposed to work?\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tips.at\/news\/st-marien\/wirtschaft-politik\/426979-software-soll-konflikte-fruehzeitig-erkennen\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Teachers in conflict:<\/strong>\u00a0all too human, isn't it? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.zeit.de\/gesellschaft\/schule\/2018-05\/lehrer-lehrerzimmer-laesterei-schueler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Working world<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>What does my job do to me<\/strong>?\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/beruf-chance\/beruf\/wie-sich-der-beruf-auf-die-persoenlichkeit-auswirkt-15582456.html?GEPC=s9\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Work-Life-Belnd<\/strong>The way you work has a direct impact on how well (and how long) you live. <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.evernote.com\/de\/work-life-balance\/?utm_source=sfmc&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=EVN-ENG-NLS-EM-88-8888-Newsletter_042618&amp;utm_content=nl+right+text+cta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep fusion-clearfix\" style=\"float:left;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;background-color:rgba(255,255,255,0);font-size:16px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px\"><i class=\"fa-th-list fas\" style=\"font-size: inherit;color:#e2e2e2;\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-4 gradient-container-4 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-5 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><h3><strong>Men and women<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Things are hotting up in Dresden &#8211; Military History Museum shows <strong>Exhibition on gender issues<\/strong>which does not meet with everyone's approval!\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.zeit.de\/2018\/19\/militaerhistorisches-museum-dresden-ausstellung-gender\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Help with <strong>Stalking<\/strong> &#8211; <strong>Consistently suspend communication<\/strong>. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sueddeutsche.de\/leben\/stalking-sie-geniessen-die-macht-die-sie-ueber-den-anderen-ausueben-koennen-1.3971643\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Crime and society<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Not the <strong>People are criminals<\/strong>but the areas in which they are committed &#8211; the law of concentration of crime in a few places. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.zeit.de\/zeit-verbrechen\/2018\/01\/kriminologe-david-weisburd-berlin-kottbusser-tor-kriminalitaet\/komplettansicht\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Europe's Christians and foreigners<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/politik\/europaeische-christen-lehnen-einwanderern-haeufiger-ab-15613291.html?GEPC=s9\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Crazy (?) knowledge<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Baby sounds <\/strong>are more than bio-sirens.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/feuilleton\/hoch-schule\/warum-saeuglinge-total-unterschaetzt-werden-15571732.html?GEPC=s9\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Link<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep fusion-clearfix\" style=\"float:left;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;background-color:rgba(255,255,255,0);font-size:16px;width: 1.75em; 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