{"id":3413,"date":"2019-07-10T15:54:11","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T13:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/?p=3413"},"modified":"2020-05-21T00:27:50","modified_gmt":"2020-05-20T22:27:50","slug":"podcast-on-the-twelve-the-conflict-and-dispute-podcast-domestic-violence-why-do-you-stay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/blog\/podcast-on-the-twelve-the-conflict-and-dispute-podcast-domestic-violence-why-do-you-stay\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast &#8222;On the Twelve! The conflict and dispute podcast&#8220; &#8211; Domestic violence &#8211; Why do they stay?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 gradient-container-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><h6 style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"color: #808080;\">Mediation must be well prepared. <\/span><\/h6>\n<h6 style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"color: #808080;\">Photo: rawpixel | <a style=\"color: #808080;\" title=\"unsplash.com\" href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">unsplash.com<\/a><\/span><\/h6>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:34;line-height:1.4;\"><h3>Podcast &#8222;On the Twelve &#8211; The Conflict and Dispute Podcast&#8220; (#7)<\/h3>\n<h1>Domestic violence: Why do they stay?<\/h1><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-aligncenter\"><a class=\"fusion-button button-3d button-medium button-darkgray fusion-button-darkgray button-1 fusion-button-default-span\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/detektor.fm\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/auf-die-zwoelf-hauesliche-gewalt.mp3\"><i class=\"fa-play fas awb-button__icon awb-button__icon--default button-icon-left\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><span class=\"fusion-button-text awb-button__text awb-button__text--default\">Listen to the podcast now<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><h6><span class=\"mgrey\">03.07.2019<\/span><\/h6>\n<p class=\"max thin\">A woman was killed by her (ex-)partner every three days in Germany in 2018. And many men also suffer martyrdom. But why do they stay in violent relationships for so long? A mystery or not? We talk to a family therapist and explore this question.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><p>For many women, the home is a dangerous place. That's what the Federal Minister for Family Affairs, Franziska Giffey, said, <a title=\"Ministry of Family Affairs: Domestic violence\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bmfsfj.de\/bmfsfj\/themen\/gleichstellung\/frauen-vor-gewalt-schuetzen\/haeusliche-gewalt\/haeusliche-gewalt\/80642\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">when she presented new figures on domestic violence in Germany last year<\/a>. One in four women have experienced physical or sexual violence in a relationship at some point in their lives.<\/p>\n<p>In today's podcast, we ask ourselves why so many partners stay with their partners even when they become violent. Among others, we talk to the family therapist <strong><a title=\"Wegweiser e.V.\" href=\"http:\/\/wegweiser-boehlen.de\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Annette Lindner from Wegweiser e. V.<\/a><\/strong>which counsels victims of domestic violence.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>We are often asked this question. Why doesn't she leave? Why has she put up with it for so long? There are many reasons. The fear of loneliness. Many of the people who go through this are used to violence from childhood. In many violent relationships, emotional as well as financial dependency plays a role. And what many women also say: there were also good times, we had lots of nice moments. I hear that in almost every counselling session. - Annette Lindner, Wegweiser e. V.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Guide through the podcast <strong><em>detektor.fm<\/em>-Moderator Christian Eichler<\/strong> and the business mediator <strong>Sascha Weig<\/strong><strong>el<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Are you a victim of domestic violence?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Under the number<strong> 08000 116 016<\/strong> The \"Violence against women\" helpline offers advice to victims or relatives and professionals - around the clock, free of charge and anonymously.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-aligncenter\"><a class=\"fusion-button button-3d button-medium button-darkgray fusion-button-darkgray button-2 fusion-button-default-span\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/detektor.fm\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/auf-die-zwoelf-hauesliche-gewalt.mp3\"><i class=\"fa-play fas awb-button__icon awb-button__icon--default button-icon-left\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><span class=\"fusion-button-text awb-button__text awb-button__text--default\">Listen to the podcast now<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 gradient-container-2 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:5%;--awb-padding-bottom:5%;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-2 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-center fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-center fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:24;line-height:1.5;\">The latest podcasts, blog posts and news first<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_2 1_2 fusion-one-half fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:50%;width:calc(50% - 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