{"id":10252,"date":"2022-05-07T00:21:58","date_gmt":"2022-05-06T22:21:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/?p=10252"},"modified":"2022-05-07T00:51:25","modified_gmt":"2022-05-06T22:51:25","slug":"negotiation-quotes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/blog\/negotiation-quotes\/","title":{"rendered":"Negotiations &#8211; Quotes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 gradient-container-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--link_hover_color: #4286b7;--link_color: #ebe840;--awb-border-sizes-top:2px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:2px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-color:#ffffff;--awb-border-style:dotted;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:50px;--awb-padding-right:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-padding-left:20px;--awb-margin-top:30px;--awb-margin-bottom:30px;--awb-background-color:#b4c6d6;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-inner-bg-wrapper\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-right:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-padding-left:20px;--awb-overflow:hidden;--awb-inner-bg-color:#004767;--awb-inner-bg-color-hover:#004767;--awb-inner-bg-position:center center;--awb-inner-bg-size:cover;--awb-border-color:rgba(255,255,255,0.8);--awb-border-top:2px;--awb-border-right:2px;--awb-border-bottom:2px;--awb-border-left:2px;--awb-border-style:dotted;--awb-border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;--awb-inner-bg-border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;--awb-inner-bg-overflow:hidden;--awb-margin-top:50px;--awb-margin-bottom:50px;\"><span class=\"fusion-column-inner-bg hover-type-zoomin\"><span class=\"fusion-column-anchor\"><span class=\"fusion-column-inner-bg-image\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-column-content-centered\"><div class=\"fusion-column-content\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:40px;margin-bottom:40px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-double sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#000000;border-color:#000000;border-top-width:2px;border-bottom-width:2px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><div class=\"\">\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><b class=\"\">Negotiations<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Aphorisms, sayings and quotes<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h3>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:40px;margin-bottom:40px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-double sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#091e00;border-color:#091e00;border-top-width:2px;border-bottom-width:2px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 gradient-container-2 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--link_hover_color: #4085b7;--link_color: #24648c;--awb-border-sizes-top:2px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:2px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-color:#ffffff;--awb-border-style:dotted;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:50px;--awb-padding-right:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-padding-left:20px;--awb-margin-top:30px;--awb-margin-bottom:30px;--awb-background-color:#b4c6d6;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-inner-bg-wrapper\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-right:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-padding-left:20px;--awb-overflow:hidden;--awb-inner-bg-color:#004767;--awb-inner-bg-color-hover:#004767;--awb-inner-bg-position:center center;--awb-inner-bg-size:cover;--awb-border-color:rgba(255,255,255,0.8);--awb-border-top:2px;--awb-border-right:2px;--awb-border-bottom:2px;--awb-border-left:2px;--awb-border-style:dotted;--awb-border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;--awb-inner-bg-border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;--awb-inner-bg-overflow:hidden;--awb-margin-top:50px;--awb-margin-bottom:50px;\"><span class=\"fusion-column-inner-bg hover-type-zoomin\"><span class=\"fusion-column-anchor\"><span class=\"fusion-column-inner-bg-image\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-column-content-centered\"><div class=\"fusion-column-content\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:40px;margin-bottom:40px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-double sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#000000;border-color:#000000;border-top-width:2px;border-bottom-width:2px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\" style=\"--awb-text-color:#ffffff;\"><p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Negotiations take place everywhere every day. Often, the parties involved do not even realise this. It is not uncommon for negotiation processes to end before they have even begun for both negotiating partners. Very few negotiation processes are linguistically declared as such and therefore take place everywhere and between everyone. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">In <em>Pedestrian zones<\/em> The route is negotiated as to who walks how and who gives way to others; <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">in <em>Families<\/em> The children's bedtime (or that of their parents) is negotiated on a daily basis; <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">on the <em>Workplaces<\/em> is negotiated everywhere and always, who leads whom. <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">If it is true that all communication is an invitation to focus on certain aspects (and less on others), then not only is everything communication, which we cannot avoid in the presence of others, but all communication is also negotiation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">And yet negotiation skills are generally ascribed to professional occupational groups, but by no means as a daily resource for dialogue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">With this blog post from our series\u00a0<em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Quotes, sayings, aphorisms<\/span><\/em> I would like to illustrate the everyday nature of negotiation processes.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>Before my favourites for negotiations follow, I would like to thank Maria K\u00f6ltzsch, Sabine-Inken Schmidt, Andrea N\u00e4her-Zeiffer, Martina Naubert, Mladin Mechenbier, Sophie L\u00f6ffler, Norbert Jung.<\/em><\/span><\/h5>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:40px;margin-bottom:40px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-double sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#091e00;border-color:#091e00;border-top-width:2px;border-bottom-width:2px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-3 gradient-container-3 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--link_hover_color: #4085b7;--link_color: #20628c;--awb-border-sizes-top:2px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:2px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-color:#ffffff;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-right:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-padding-left:20px;--awb-margin-top:30px;--awb-margin-bottom:30px;--awb-background-color:#b4c6d6;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-inner-bg-wrapper\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-right:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-padding-left:20px;--awb-overflow:hidden;--awb-inner-bg-color:#004767;--awb-inner-bg-color-hover:#004767;--awb-inner-bg-position:center center;--awb-inner-bg-size:cover;--awb-border-color:rgba(255,255,255,0.8);--awb-border-top:2px;--awb-border-right:2px;--awb-border-bottom:2px;--awb-border-left:2px;--awb-border-style:dotted;--awb-border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;--awb-inner-bg-border-radius:10px 10px 10px 10px;--awb-inner-bg-overflow:hidden;--awb-margin-top:50px;--awb-margin-bottom:50px;\"><span class=\"fusion-column-inner-bg hover-type-zoomin\"><span class=\"fusion-column-anchor\"><span class=\"fusion-column-inner-bg-image\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-column-content-centered\"><div class=\"fusion-column-content\"><div class=\"elegant-image elegant-image-0 elegant-align-center\"><div class=\"elegant-image-wrapper\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_6399.jpeg\" class=\"fusion-lightbox\" data-rel=\"iLightbox[elegant-image-0]\" data-caption=\"\" data-title=\"\"><img class=\"lazyload\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%271024%27%20height%3D%27950%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%201024%20950%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%271024%27%20height%3D%27950%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/IMG_0552-1-1024x950.jpeg\" alt=\"\" style=\"width:500px;\"\/><\/a><\/div><div class=\"elegant-image-blur-shadow\"><img class=\"lazyload\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%271024%27%20height%3D%27950%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%201024%20950%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%271024%27%20height%3D%27950%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/IMG_0552-1-1024x950.jpeg\" alt=\"\" style=\"width:500px;\"\/><\/div><style type=\"text\/css\"><\/style><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep fusion-clearfix\" style=\"float:left;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;background-color:rgba(255,255,255,0);font-size:16px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px\"><i class=\"fa-th-list fas\" style=\"font-size: inherit;color:#e2e2e2;\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-builder-row-inner fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column_inner fusion-builder-nested-column-0 fusion_builder_column_inner_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\" style=\"--awb-text-color:#ffffff;\"><h2 style=\"text-align: center;\" data-fontsize=\"20\" data-lineheight=\"30\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><b class=\"\">General negotiation theory<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 class=\"Text\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>1. <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"The negotiation begins with a no.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Jim Camp)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>2.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Let us never negotiate out of fear, but let us never be afraid to negotiate.\"<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(J.F. Kennedy)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>3.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 class=\"Text\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>&#8222;Negotiation is not a sign of weakness, but of trust &#8220;\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(R. Fisher)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">4.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"For negotiations to progress, an environment in which there is a certain balance of power is required.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em><i class=\"\">(Henry Kissinger, (*1923), politician<\/i>)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>5.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Nothing is as important as it seems at the moment when you are intensively involved with it.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>6. <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"I have learnt that you are never too small to make a difference.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Greta Thunberg)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>7.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"If you didn't squeeze like that, I wouldn't have to squeeze like that.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(K. Sprenger)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">8.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Never take responsibility for the other party's decisions. Never try to save the relationship.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>9<\/strong>.<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>&#8222;Never look down on someone unless you admire their shoes &#8220;<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>10. <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"The head is round so that thinking can change direction.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><i style=\"font-size: 16px;\">(U<i class=\"\">nknown<\/i><\/i><i style=\"font-size: 16px;\">)<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep fusion-clearfix\" style=\"float:left;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;background-color:rgba(255,255,255,0);font-size:16px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px\"><i class=\"fa-th-list fas\" style=\"font-size: inherit;color:#e2e2e2;\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-builder-row-inner fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column_inner fusion-builder-nested-column-1 fusion_builder_column_inner_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-color:#004767;--awb-bg-color-hover:#004767;--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\"fusion-imageframe imageframe-glow imageframe-1 hover-type-zoomin\" style=\"-webkit-box-shadow: 0 0 3px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);box-shadow: 0 0 3px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"823\" height=\"1024\" title=\"Sascha 201925665 Copy\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%271081%27%20height%3D%271344%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%201081%201344%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%271081%27%20height%3D%271344%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Sascha-201925665-Kopie-823x1024.jpg\" alt class=\"lazyload img-responsive wp-image-4662\"\/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\" style=\"--awb-text-color:#ffffff;\"><h2 style=\"text-align: center;\" data-fontsize=\"20\" data-lineheight=\"30\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><b class=\"\">Conflict negotiations<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>1.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Negotiation is not the worst form of action.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(<i class=\"\">Will Rogers (1879-1935), americ. humourist<\/i>)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>2.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"If you negotiate, you not only have to convince the other side, but also your own audience.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(<i class=\"\">Shimon Peres, President of Israel<\/i>)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>3.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"It's nonsense to slam doors when you can leave them ajar.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(<i class=\"\">J. William Fulbright (1905-95), American politician. politician<\/i>)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>4.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"We cannot negotiate with those who say: what is mine is mine; and what is yours is a matter of negotiation.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(<i class=\"\">John F. Kennedy, 35th US President<\/i>)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>5.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Let us never negotiate out of fear, but let us never be afraid to negotiate.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(<i class=\"\">John F. Kennedy, 35th US President<\/i>)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>6.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"The trick in negotiations was to hold all the cards right from the start, or at least to look as if you did.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><i style=\"font-size: 16px;\">(<i class=\"\">E. Colfer, 1965, Irish writer<\/i><\/i><i style=\"font-size: 16px;\">)<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>7.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Take the time to find out what connects you to your negotiating partner.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><i>(<i class=\"\">Unknown<\/i><\/i><i>)<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h3>\n<h3 class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>8<\/strong>.<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Better to spend 100 hours negotiating for nothing than one minute shooting.<\/strong><strong style=\"font-size: 16px;\">\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(<i class=\"\">Helmut Schmidt (1918-2015), German politician<\/i>)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>9.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"A non-violent movement could not have stopped Hitler's armies. Negotiations cannot convince the leaders of Al Qaeda to lay down their arms. It is not a call to cynicism to say that violence may sometimes be necessary - it is a recognition of history, the imperfection of man and the limits of reason.<\/strong><strong style=\"font-size: 16px;\">\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Barack Obama)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>10. <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Threats are always taboo, warnings are often helpful and necessary.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h3>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:5px;margin-bottom:5px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep fusion-clearfix\" style=\"float:left;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:#e0dede;background-color:rgba(255,255,255,0);font-size:16px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px\"><i class=\"fa-th-list fas\" style=\"font-size: inherit;color:#e2e2e2;\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-builder-row-inner fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column_inner fusion-builder-nested-column-2 fusion_builder_column_inner_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\"fusion-imageframe imageframe-glow imageframe-2 hover-type-zoomin\" style=\"-webkit-box-shadow: 0 0 3px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);box-shadow: 0 0 3px rgba(0,0,0,0.3);\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"914\" height=\"1024\" title=\"B72269E1-FFE0-4A99-B7EF-EF1E4E3FB449\" src=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/B72269E1-FFE0-4A99-B7EF-EF1E4E3FB449.jpeg\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/B72269E1-FFE0-4A99-B7EF-EF1E4E3FB449-914x1024.jpeg\" alt class=\"lazyload img-responsive wp-image-10263\" srcset=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%271143%27%20height%3D%271280%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%201143%201280%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%271143%27%20height%3D%271280%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/B72269E1-FFE0-4A99-B7EF-EF1E4E3FB449-200x224.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/B72269E1-FFE0-4A99-B7EF-EF1E4E3FB449-400x448.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/B72269E1-FFE0-4A99-B7EF-EF1E4E3FB449-600x672.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/B72269E1-FFE0-4A99-B7EF-EF1E4E3FB449-800x896.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/B72269E1-FFE0-4A99-B7EF-EF1E4E3FB449.jpeg 1143w\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-orig-sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 914px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-5\" style=\"--awb-text-color:#ffffff;\"><h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><b class=\"\">Relationship negotiations<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>1.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"When two people negotiate a question, they become different and the question becomes different.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(E. v. Keyserling)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>2.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"An appeal to reason is the most unreasonable thing you can do.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(M. Schranner)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>3.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>&#8222;If you want to know what you want, watch what you do &#8220;<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>4.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Relationships get worse on their own.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Hans Jellouschek, transaction analyst)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>5. <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Grass doesn't grow any faster if you pull on it.<\/strong><strong style=\"font-size: 16px;\">\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>6.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Get your neediness under control and pay attention to the other person's signals.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Jim Camp)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>7. <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"What has been said once can never be unsaid again.<\/strong><strong>\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>8<\/strong>.<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>&#8222;Ever tried, ever failed, no matter.&#8220;<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>9.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"Not my circus, not my monkeys.\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>10. <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>\"I don't have to put up with everything &#8211; from me.<\/strong><strong style=\"font-size: 16px;\">\"<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><em>(Unknown)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-4 fusion-flex-container gradient-container-4 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-background-color:#ffffff;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1144px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-3 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-color:#ffffff;--awb-bg-color-hover:#ffffff;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-6\"><p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em>Is there a quote you are missing on the subject of negotiation?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em>Then feel free to write it in the comment function&#8230;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":10267,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,721,202,479],"tags":[100,203],"class_list":["post-10252","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-allgemein","category-konflikt","category-verhandlungslehre","category-zitate","tag-verhandlung","tag-verhandlungslehre"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10252","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10252"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10252\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10267"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10252"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10252"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}