{"id":10023,"date":"2022-01-21T22:36:18","date_gmt":"2022-01-21T21:36:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/?p=10023"},"modified":"2025-08-05T09:39:44","modified_gmt":"2025-08-05T07:39:44","slug":"mistakes-in-mediations-in-conversation-with-stefanie-buchmann-ute-enderlein-and-tilman-metzger-inkovema-podcast-72","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/blog\/mistakes-in-mediations-in-conversation-with-stefanie-buchmann-ute-enderlein-and-tilman-metzger-inkovema-podcast-72\/","title":{"rendered":"Mistakes in mediations. In conversation with Stefanie Buchmann, Ute Enderlein and Tilman Metzger (INKOVEMA podcast #72)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container gradient-container-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1144px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-four\"><h4 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:16;--minFontSize:16;line-height:1.5;\"><h4>INKOVEMA Podcast &#8222;Well through time&#8220;<\/h4><\/h4><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-2 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-one\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:34;line-height:1.4;\"><h1>#72 &#8211; Errors in mediations<\/h1><\/h1><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-3 sep-underline sep-solid fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-three\"><h3 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:20;line-height:1.5;\"><h2>Was Mediator*innen aus Fehlern, Unachtsamkeiten und gescheiterten Mediationen lernen (k\u00f6nnen und m\u00fcssen). Im Gespr\u00e4ch mit Dr. Stefanie Buchmann, Dr. Ute Enderlein und Tilman Metzger<\/h2><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Well through time. The podcast about mediation, conflict coaching and organisational consulting.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#ffffff;border-color:#ffffff;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><script class=\"podigee-podcast-player\" src=\"https:\/\/player.podigee-cdn.net\/podcast-player\/javascripts\/podigee-podcast-player.js\" data-configuration=\"https:\/\/inkovema.podigee.io\/72-72-gescheitert-aber-gescheiter-im-gesprach-mit-stefanie-buchmann-ute-enderlein-und-tilman-metzger\/embed?context=external\"><\/script><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#ffffff;border-color:#ffffff;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p><strong>Today's podcast guests<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Tilman Metzger<\/strong>, mediator from the very beginning, co-founder of the Federal Association and trainer of the Federal Association of Mediation, Hamburg &#8211; recalls a workplace mediation in which, with the best of intentions, the constructive will of the parties was not taken seriously and the corresponding reactions were interpreted as resistance to the mediation itself.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dr Stefanie Buchmann<\/strong>, doctor of law and head of the legal department of the FSU Jena and mediator, Jena &#8211; reports on one of her mediations and how mistakes can sometimes have helpful effects.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dr Ute Enderlein<\/strong>, PhD in cultural studies and lecturer at the University of Saxon Administration in Meissen, experienced change manager, mediator, Dresden &#8211; describes an unspeakable and ever-increasing situation of being overwhelmed by the need to somehow deal with conflicts in a major project in just a few hours &#8222; and that online, and without a picture.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/mediation-training\/\">New training courses in mediation and coaching<\/a>\u00a0from March and October 2022.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#ffffff;border-color:#ffffff;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"text-align:center;\"><a class=\"fusion-button button-flat fusion-button-default-size button-default fusion-button-default button-1 fusion-button-default-span fusion-button-default-type\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/blog\/failed-but-failed-quotes-on-failure-and-failure-culture\/\"><span class=\"fusion-button-icon-divider button-icon-divider-left\"><i class=\"fa-info-circle fas awb-button__icon awb-button__icon--default\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-button-text awb-button__text awb-button__text--default fusion-button-text-left\">Failed failed more clever &#8211; or how it pays to deal with mistakes and failure. Aphorisms, quotes, sayings (blog post)<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#ffffff;border-color:#ffffff;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><h2>Contents:<\/h2>\n<p>Today we are talking about mistakes, inadequacies, mishaps and sometimes downright failures in mediation &#8211; and not by the conflict parties, who are working on and sometimes failing to find a solution to their conflict; but about the failure or mistakes of mediators.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes we throw the sticks at ourselves that we find on the wrong track we are on. And yet we struggle to do what Nelson Mandela once said about himself.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8222;I never lose. Either I win or I learn &#8220;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":10025,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[781,314,93,42],"tags":[782,436,510,439,14,783,784],"class_list":["post-10023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fehlerkultur","category-inkovema-podcast","category-konzepte-fuer-die-mediation","category-podcast","tag-arbeitsrecht","tag-change-management","tag-fehlerkultur","tag-lernen","tag-mediation","tag-missgeschick","tag-unachtsamkeit"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10023"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10023\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.inkovema.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}